Come as you are, as you were
As I want you to be
As a friend, as a friend
As an old enemy
And I swear I don’t have a gun
Lyrics by Kurt Cobain
Sorry, I couldn’t get this out of my mind as I read your great post. Being that we are not hunting and gathering, or planting crops to get us through the winter, we definitely have too much time on our hands to be seriously fucked up! Loneliness is all it’s built up to be, but personal courage is a hard virtue to find.